I was raised in a loving Christian family, in a neighborhood of middle-class working families, friendly, church people. The United States was at peace and public morality was pretty much Judeo-Christian, no one complaining about the Ten Commandments on public buildings. “Children learn what they live,” and that’s true of me. Still in my Christian cocoon, I find it hard to believe there are people who are my enemies.
“They make their tongue sharp as a serpent’s, and under their lips is the venom of asps…. Violent men, who have planned to trip up my feet. The arrogant have hidden a trap for me, and with cords they have spread a net; beside the way they have set snares for me” (Psalm 140:3-5). I might be naïve, but the psalmists weren’t. They often pray for deliverance and vengeance. “Deliver me, O Lord, from evil men; preserve me from violent men.” “Let the mischief of their lips overwhelm them! Let burning coals fall upon them! Let them be cast into fire” (Psalm 140:1, 9-10). So, should this be my godly prayer for people who are against me, “Lord, fry ‘em!”?
The Bible teaches God’s judgment is more intricate than “let ‘em burn.” St. Paul quotes Proverbs 25:21-22: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:20-21). Two things happen when you and I do good to someone who does us wrong. “We provoke him to peace or even to reconciliation. But if he persists in his wickedness, he will bring down fire on his head” (Constantius, an early church father, in Michael Middendorf, “Concordia Commentary: Romans,” 1276-1277). So, the psalmist praying for deliverance and vengeance finally puts the injustice he’s suffered into God’s hands. “I know that the Lord will maintain the cause of the afflicted, and will execute justice for the needy” (Psalm 140:12). “Let those who suffer according to God’s will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good” (1 Peter 4:19).
All of which leads me to thankfulness for being cocooned in God’s love, His love to me and through me to all, God’s love to you and through you to everyone in your life.