On a Saturday morning several years ago, I walked over to Sieck Hall; that’s where my working office is located. A young seminarian… I mean young, didn’t look like he’d been confirmed…was standing outside. “What are you doing here on a Saturday?” I asked. “We’re having a computer software workshop.” “It’s a fad,” I said. “Carbon paper is coming back.” He looked at me and said, “Sir, I have no idea what you’re talking about.”
I tell that story because Diane and I saw “The Intern” yesterday afternoon. Robert DeNiro plays a 70-year-old widower who knows he needs to keep busy, and wants to. So he signs up for a “Senior Intern” position at an internet company. He starts out as a curiosity to the young people who dominate the company but by the end of the movie is recognized for the wisdom he learned over the years, wisdom he gently shares with young people willing to listen.
King Rehoboam wasn’t willing to listen. His father Solomon had died and the people pleaded for relief from the heavy hand of government. His older advisers said to be gentle, “to please them and speak good words to them” (2 Chronicles 10:7), but his younger advisers told him to double down. Rehoboam rejected the advice of the older men and civil war broke out. Israel was forever divided.
In the New Testament, religious hard-liners had arrested the apostles for preaching about Jesus. An older and learned rabbi named Gamaliel recounted history and said, “‘If this plan or undertaking is of God, you will not be able to overthrow them. You might even be found opposing God!’ So they took his advice” (Acts 5:39).
“Hear, O sons, a father’s instruction, and be attentive, that you may gain insight” (Proverbs 4:1).
We can’t live the lives of younger adults. They’ll just wait us out, if you know what I mean, but interest them in the honest life stories we have to tell, they’ll listen. If you know what carbon paper is, or was, you’ll enjoy “The Intern.”